Brewer Road. Douglas County. Georgia.
My sister married into a large family that came from Brewer Road.
The last name of that family is Camp. The family is even bigger these days. Included in the family is Jeff, my nephew.
Living so far away we do not get the opportunity to know one another very well. My loss.
However, a little less than a month ago, Jeff and his Mom, my sister Barbara, came to the great northwest for a short visit. The visit was prompted by the death of my other sister, Floria. Now, okay, not the best circumstances for a visit, but still the visit was sweet. I learned a few things on account of that visit. Barbara is a great Mom. Jeff is a great son. And I’m positive I can say the same kind of thing about the rest of that Georgia family.
Jeff could not contain himself. While I have met his wife, Amanda, only once (and that on their wedding day), and have never met his beautiful little girl, McKoy, I feel as though I know them well. Jeff simply spilled and gushed tid-bits and news regarding both of them. If Jeff has ever hit a home run, shot game while it was on the move, succeeded at business beyond the expectations of others, or any other way gained some small town fame, I would not know. He didn’t talk about himself. He talked about others.
His extended family.
Even the former sheriff of Douglas County (if you ever meet Jeff, you will want to ask about the Sheriff).
And it was all positive. And sometimes what he shared was priceless.
One of those stories took place on old Brewer Road. If you can recall the song by Brooks and Dunn, “Red Dirt Road,” then you’ll have a good picture of Brewer Road back in the day. Now for just a few moments allow yourself to transport back to the early 50’s. That’s right, right back in the middle of the last century. Picture for yourself an old, red dirt road stretching and winding its way through the pine trees, kudzu, scupanon vines, corn fields, and cabins with nothing but dirt for yards.
Now imagine a young man walking that old dirt road with nothing but a duffle bag hung over his shoulder. Mixed in his heart were the expectations of joy for returning home and the exasperation of pain for remembering war. His name is Ernie. He was coming home from Korea. Ernie was one of seven boys born to Fred and Manie Camp.
Imagine also a mom, dad, and six brothers standing, milling around, kicking the dust, chatting, longing, looking for him to round the curve and enter into sight. Early in the morning they gathered. Eagerly they waited. On that day they waited. Think about that…that day, for them, today, their day, his day…an epic day…a day they had contemplated and anticipated…time stood still on that day. It stood still the way you want time to stand still. It stood still with the joy of life not the humdrum of life. Time is like that. When you are focused on the event, the celebration, the glory and the hope, time is inconsequential. Ernie’s soon and coming return produced this kind of hope. It was more like an eternal moment than minutes and hours on a slow southern day.
And then it happened. No confusion. No mistake. Recognition was perfect. The son and brother came into sight. He ran. They ran. The dust of the old dirt road churned. Whoops and hollers from deep southern drawls sang their way through the dark corners of woods and swamps spreading the light of their joy. Young legs carried young men toward one another. Older legs of Mom and Dad trailed behind, not for want of enthusiasm, but simply for age. Six brothers reached their brother. The reunion would be spectacular. One brother plowed right through them. Ernie’s eyes were on Mother and Father. Yes he wanted to rejoin his brothers. He wanted to hug them. Talk with them. Catch up with them. But first…first came Mom and Dad. He ran into their arms. The son was home. The parents were content. The brothers watched. Deep satisfaction paved old Brewer Road. Beautiful. Incredible. Fantastic. I can imagine Mother Camp whispering in the ear of her returned son, “Well done. I’m so glad you are home.” I can also imagine his tears of joy.
As Jeff told me this story, his eyes also filled with joy…not tears of joy. Instead, his eyes were afire with joy. Genuine excitement moved him body and soul. He recalled his Uncle Don telling this story now enshrined in their family hall of fame. His Uncle Don—the preacher—loved this bit of family history. It reminded him of His Story. It reminded him of heaven.
Heaven, where time stands still with the event of God’s glory.
Heaven, where every reunion pales in the light of our union with God the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.
Heaven, where all the out-stretched arms of loved ones who have gone before must yet remain empty of our embrace as we thrill for the promise of the Everlasting Arms.
When one finally reaches the final destination, he or she does not run into the arms of anyone other than the most beloved. So, for a little while, can you allow yourself to be transported to your final destination? Does that destination look like the one described by Jeff and before him his Uncle Don? Does your destination sound and feel like this:
Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea. I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Now the dwelling of God is with men, and he will live with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!” Then he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.” He said to me: “It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. To him who is thirsty I will give to drink without cost from the spring of the water of life. Revelation 21:1-6
Will your destination find time standing still with joy and expectation? Will the glory of the never-ending event of the presence of God satisfy all your longings? Will you run past all the others into the Everlasting Arms? Will you hear the Savior say, “Well done. I’m so glad you are home?” Will you?
There is a road.
There is an old dirt road.
It is paved with memories.
It’s called Brewer Road.
There is another road.
There is a long narrow road.
It is paved with life.
It’s called Salvation Road.
10 thoughts on “Brewer Road”
I so enjoyed this post! Jeff is my second cousin and “Uncle Don” is my grandpa. Grandpa moved to Indiana eventually, and there is a small remnant of Camps up here. We remember Brewer Road as hallowed ground.
Thank you for the beautiful retelling of an important story. Important – primarily – because it reflects the greater story of Christ welcoming us home. Secondarily, I love these people with my whole heart. I have a rich heritage and can only hope my son (and daughter on the way) will be blessed by family the way I have.
Thank you again.
Aaron, when I was about thirteen my family went for a visit to see my sister and her family. Our time there coincided with a visit from your Grandpa and his family. Some of the men were sitting in Fred and Manie’s front room. Of course, that’s where I wanted to be so I took up my place. Your Grandpa said to me, “Young man, if you were to die today and God asked you, ‘Why should I let you into heaven,’ what would you say?” I answered, “I’d tell him I asked your Son, Jesus Christ, to be my Savior.” After a short bit of silence from the men in the room, your Grandpa said, “Well okay.” My Mom had taught me well and I am forever grateful. Later in life, I learned that Don’s evangelism strategy that day was part of D. James Kennedy’s “Evangelism Explosion” method. Men of God like your Grandpa and Dr. Kennedy don’t let too many opportunities get away. Indeed, you do possess a rich heritage.
I’m Dondeena’s husband Dave. Aaron is my nephew, Jeff my cousin (in-law, but I found out Camps don’t have in-laws, just family), and Uncle Don is my spiritual mentor and father (in-law). My wife and I live with his widow of 11-years-last-week, Elaine.
Everything already said is poignant as is, we just thought it would encourage you to hear that today, August 23—the day we first saw this and get to share it with her—is Don’s birthday. These thoughts from each of you will make her day.
I hope for all of you it’s one of those “time stand still, holy sort of days.” Praying for you.
Loved reading this article. How I remember so much of what you wrote. Can’t wait for all of us to get to heaven and have the reunion of our lives. Many thanks for your written blessing!!!
Hope your special day with David and Elaine is wonderful. And Amen to the reunion of all reunions. “Lord Jesus, while we agree with your apostle, Paul, that it’s better for others that we remain, we also agree with him that to be with you is our greatest hope and desire.”
Hi Rick, I don’t if you remember me, but I am Robyn, daughter number two of Ernest (or Ernie as his brothers called him) and Nelda. My sister Donna told me of this bolg post just today. She works at the courthouse and Aunt Barb sent it to her office earlier today. She said it made her cry, but that story always brings a tears to our eye. Jeff’s a true Camp and we love to tell our family stories! I’m glad he shared that one with you. You retold it so beautifully and the connection to our final reunion with the Lord was perfect. Daddy would have loved it. I too cried while reading this precions memory of our Dad’s homecoming from Korea. He was so proud to serve, but missed his beloved home and family. I have always imagined that day too. How my grandmonther must have felt. The intense joy and relief she and Granddaddy felt, had to be something you could never forget. I know when he passed into heaven the day he died that my grandparents, Uncle Don and Uncle Russ where there to welcome him home once again. I know they will be waiting for me..arms waiting to welcome me home. You know,Rick that dirt road and Grandma’s yard served as a playground for many of us older grandchildren every Sunday afternoon. We love those memories. So sweet. I also recall your visits to Dark Corner’s Brewer Road to see Barb and Tommy. You, your parents, and your brotherTom and sister, Flo who was close to our age. She spent the night with Donna and I. I was so sorry to hear of her death. I remember her as being a sweet and fun hearted person. I’ve had you all in my prayers. My mother asked me to tell you thank you also. Your post touched her heart so much. Thank you again for sharing this with everyone. It’s going to be a sweet day with we have our heavenly homecomings with our loved ones too! God Bless you Rick!
Thank you for the kind words. I always enjoyed those days visiting Barbara and all your families. One of my favorite memories was when the guys would get together for some pickin’ and singin.’ I don’t know how often those nights happened, but the couple I got to go to were awesome. At one of them, the evening concluded with prayer. Your Dad cried out to the Lord like I had never seen or heard before.It was in the front room of Barbara’s house there on Brewer Rd. Wonderful.
It thrills my heart to know that so many of you are walking with the Savior. Our Lord Jesus is so good. How do those who turn from his love and grace not realize…
Thank you for sharing this blog. Of course, I’m partial to my little brother. But your gift for writing surely comes from our Mom, who so often wrote her poetry. We need to hang on to all those. The Camp sisters have told me this morning how much they enjoyed this story and I gave some of them copies even though they already had read it. I wanted to see what the other comments were as I had heard what wonderful replies you had received. The Camp families are special people and I will ever have some good memories of Grandpa & Grandma Camp, and all the brothers, sisters, and grandchildren. Can’t believe it’s been almost 20 years since I was officially a Camp, but life goes on and we all become stronger because of our failures and the strength that only our Lord and Savior gives to us in times of despair. What a reunion we will all have in heaven for there will be no sadness, no death, no divorce, no sickness, …only joy!!!
Barb, amen and amen. Love you.